Instead of buying a kit or giving your car to a shop, your real best bet would be to learn how and do it yourself. There are only a couple kits for the KA out there and one of them is garbage. You would be better off piecing together your own kit by waiting for deals in the for-sale sections of the forums.
Visit KA-T.org and read everything, especially the stickies.
If you plan on eventually rebuilding and turning up the boost, you might as well start buying parts that will get you towards that goal instead of your 7psi goal. Obviously, the turbo you get at first will be a small one as will the injectors. Almost everything else though, should be bought with your final setup in mind.
With that in mind, you should really look into an ECU that does everything a stand alone can do at under half the price. Calum or Nistune are both great options. These two ECU types utilize your stock ECU by adding a daughterboard that will enable real time tuning among other things. Best part is it will only cost ~$500 vs. $1200+ for an AEM standalone.
SAFC is a terrible option IMO because you cant control timing. It works by modifying the signals from the various sensors and 'tricking' your ECU into adding more fuel. Because the ECU sees more air entering it adds more fuel, but it also advances timing which is not good for a forced induction engine.
ROM tunes are ok at best. There are many with problems, but there are also many that work.
Visit the forum I mentioned above and start from there. That site has everything you need to know.
Good luck